Why Do We Seek Approval – By Wanda Williams

We all seek approval for a job well done to be given the thumbs up to know we are okey we have the green light to go, but have you actually thought  how many times we do that in our lives to want the feedback almost like a certificate to hang on the wall for all in sundry that pass through our lives to look at & acknowledge we are good great fantastic at what we achieved in our life, or do we just want that approval from family or close friends?

The ironic thing is we don’t need to get approval or permission from anyone to say how great we are we just need to fill ourselves with the positive the knowing we are doing the best we can in life to be true to oneself to love ourselves unconditionally, when we see ourselves in this vibration we bring the best from ourselves & project that out into the world when we interact with others in a positive energy we bring peace love & light into a sometimes dark world. Not all in this world will see what you have achieved in your life or how far you have come or the changes you have made, some may but will remain silent choosing not to express how proud they are of you, so why stand waiting wanting that approval?

Time is of the essence some may wait a very long time to get the recognition they desire, sometimes when we want that approval or get the good feedback we may hear it from those around us that see us in the light that we stand in those that understand the path we have walked in this lifetime, souls that have had similar experiences that have empathy of how far we have journeyed.

Acknowledge how far you have progressed step out of the shadows you cast on yourself or the shadows others may cast on you, see how far you have come, at the end of the day it is the life you choose to create for yourself waiting wanting to check if others approve of your choices in life can be unrealistic as these souls may not be privy to see the road you have journeyed or the road that lays ahead for you.

Acceptance comes from yourself to approve of how or what you do in life is your decision to feel complete comes from within stand in the light you generate for you, be happy laugh often bring the joy you want for you into your world, acceptance & approval comes first & foremost from yourself first.

I approve I accept all of myself in all I have created for myself in this lifetime these are the choices you make for you in your life, venture out into the world accept the blessings & teachings that lay ahead for you – It’s your life live it!!